My thoughts are everywhere

First of all my 13 year anniversary was last week. The only person that ever told me they were proud of me was my Grandma. But I think it might be more so that I'm not knocked up by accident & in an unhappy marriage. I've always been very level headed when it comes to that kind of stuff.
Second my speed date lover just informed me he might cancel his contract early at his job. His boss is coming back which means he'll probably get demoted. He'll probably have to pay back quite a bit of money in doing so, but he really doesn't want to work for him again. I told him to talk to his current boss & see if his old boss can be brought in as an equal. He applied for a few jobs in San Diego while I was over tonight. His cousin that he went to Ireland with lives out there & just recently broke up with his girlfriend. Apparently before my s.d.l. moved here he was trying to apply for jobs in San Diego & Austin. He's set on San Diego now. Later as we kept talking he admitted he needs to start looking long-term. I was so happy to hear this. I'm so glad he's there mentally thinking about that. My response was 'yes, you do, I will never do that personally'. His response was 'awweee'. That's just life. :) I must admit I was shocked he's actually trying to get out of his contract but totally understand why. I also realize I'm going to miss him a LOT. hmm...that's going to be interesting. We've been spending a lot more time together lately. It's kind of bizarre. I wasn't sure when his hire date was. He told me & my response was 'what date?!'. It was my birthday in 2010. MY birthday he started his job. What in the world?! So his last day would be my 30th b-day celebration. That would be bumtastic. I told him that was pretty ironic & funny. The more I think about that the more I'm in shock about that. I always ask 'why did that person come into my life?'. Everyone comes in your life (& vice versa) for a reason. I'm still trying to figure out why he did. What was he to teach me that I guess I'm still not sure of. I texted 2 good friends. One responded with 'twilight zone' the other responded with 'it's kismet'. I must agree with the kismet part. The date is seriously baffling me. So on my way home tonight I thought well if he moved to Gainesville or his lease date is the same date I broke it off with my Ex, I will scream aloud. That would be God's mean joke. I would be completely taken back. For the record it was Feb 17th. I've actually been looking myself for jobs in Austin. But there's not a job available for me yet. Only medical billers & one baker position (yes, I've even been thinking baker positions). As I was telling him this I realized I just signed a contract with the speed dating peeps & I'm required to stay in my location for a year. I'm wondering if they'll let me move but keep working for them. This should be interesting.
Third I'm getting the smartphone I REALLY want. I'm so freaking excited. I bought my first smartphone on Friday. But then a friend bought the same phone. As the weekend passed the phone I REALLY wanted went on sale (significantly). I called AT&T & spoke with 2 different representatives for about 45 minutes. I'm getting the phone I want for a GREAT price but might have to wait 2 weeks. To return the phone it will be delivered via USPS which of course takes longer than UPS. Once they receive the phone the rep will call me & we'll go from there. I bought the cover already that I really liked for the phone. So the cover will come before the actual phone. Always planning ahead. :)